I’ve started writing a “blog” entry probably five times, now. I’ve written and erased, trying to think of what I would want to say- what I want posted to the world- what I want people to know about “Mrs. Wyoming.” As I peddled on my bike last night, sweating like a gross pig, it came to me. So, here we go.
The smirks one gets when you tell someone you’re a beauty pageant queen, the eye-rolls that people don’t think you see, but you do- even the off handed comments about competing- They’re all done by people who could never do what you’ve done or are about to do.
If you’re thinking about competing- you need to know that you are already braver than most. You are already stronger than most. You are already PERFECT for this role. Sure, there’s judging on stage and in the interview room, but showing up in the first place? That’s what sets you apart from everyone else. Plus, for every weird look you get from someone- you’ll be shocked to learn of the multiple more hugs, congratulations, and well-wishers from supporters you never knew would be out there.
This post is really written for those who are on the outside looking in, thinking, “I could never do that.” Because let me tell you, YES YOU CAN. If I, a mother of 4, who had a deployed husband and thought she was too chubby to compete can do it. YOU can absolutely do it. And what’s more? You SHOULD. The journey alone teaches you so much about yourself. It also gives you the opportunity to meet women and make friends you never knew could exist. That “tribe” feeling you’re looking for? It’s here. Finding someone who truly gets you, without judgement on any level? She’s here.
Guaranteed, there’s someone here, looking for YOU. You could be that woman who is a true friend to someone who needs it. YOU could be the inspiration someone else needs to get moving. YOU and your journey can light the path for so many others.
Come join us.
Love,
~Liz
Mrs. Wyoming, 2019.
